Hand Delivered Bouquets

by Max Lucado

Through Christ, God has accepted you. Think about what this means. You cannot keep people from rejecting you. But you can keep rejections from enraging you.

Rejections are like speed bumps on the road. They come with the journey. You’re going to get cut, dished, dropped, and kicked around. You cannot keep people from rejecting you. But you can keep rejections from enraging you. How? By letting his acceptance compensate for their rejection.

Think of it this way. Suppose you dwell in a high-rise apartment. On the window sill of your room is a solitary daisy. This morning you picked the daisy and pinned it on your lapel. Since you have only one plant, this is a big event and a special daisy.

But as soon as you’re out the door, people start picking petals off your daisy. Someone snags your subway seat. Petal picked. You’re blamed for the bad report of a coworker. Three petals. The promotion is given to someone with less experience but USC water polo looks. More petals. By the end of the day, you’re down to one. Woe be to the soul who dares to draw near it. You’re only one petal-snatching away from a blowup.

What if the scenario was altered slightly? Let’s add one character. The kind man in the apartment next door runs a flower shop on the corner. Every night on the way home he stops at your place with a fresh, undeserved, yet irresistible bouquet. These are not leftover flowers. They are top-of-the-line arrangements. You don’t know why he thinks so highly of you, but you aren’t complaining. Because of him, your apartment has a sweet fragrance, and your step has a happy bounce. Let someone mess with your flower, and you’ve got a basketful to replace it!

The difference is huge. And the interpretation is obvious.

God will load your world with flowers. He hand-delivers a bouquet to your door every day. Open it! Take them! Then, when rejections come, you won’t be left short-petaled.

God can help you get rid of your anger. He made galaxies no one has ever seen and dug canyons we have yet to find. “The LORD … heals all your diseases” (Ps. 103:2–3 NIV). Do you think among those diseases might be the affliction of anger?

Do you think God could heal your angry heart?

Do you want him to? This is not a trick question. He asks the same question of you that he asked of the invalid: “Do you want to be well?” (John 5:6). Not everyone does. You may be addicted to anger. You may be a rage junkie. Anger may be part of your identity. But if you want him to, he can change your identity. Do you want him to do so?

Do you have a better option? Like moving to a rejection-free zone? If so, enjoy your life on your desert island.

Take the flowers. Receive from him so you can love or at least put up with others.
Source: A Love Worth Giving © (Thomas Nelson Publishers, 2004) Max Lucado


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Applies – Doesn’t Apply

Description
This can be used as an icebreaker referring to simple facts about the participants and then can move the group toward discussion of issues and opinions.

Setup
This game can be organized while sitting in a circle, or standing.

What to Do

  1. Call out a statement of fact or opinion (Statements may be related to major issues / strong beliefs; or to facts about the participants.
  2. Participants stand if the statement applies to them, or remain seated if it does not apply. (If you want to make it more active, place a sign on one side of the room for “Applies” and on the other side for “Doesn’t Apply” and ask people to move to the side of the room based on the statements)

Examples

  • Factual: I am over 18.
  • Factual: I am from Texas
  • Factual: I have been to Asia before.
  • Factual: I have a quiet time devotional
  • Issue: Christian’s should have a daily devotional time
  • Issue: Christian’s not divorce.
  • Issue: Overeating is a sin.


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Missions Passport

Creative Teaching Idea Description
Kids will be encouraged to “travel” to various destinations as they look at missions.

Central Truth
God called and used the disciples, Paul, and other Christians in the early church to bring the Gospel to the lost.

Bible Text
The life of Paul – Various passages from Acts

Resources
scissors, crayons or markers, small stickers or white address labels, and one “Missions Passport” or template for each participant.

Preparation

  • Prepare a Missionary passport for each person. The amount of work you do in advance will depend on the age of your group. For the youngest participants you may have passports already cut out and assembled. For older youth or adults, you may leave all the work to them and have the materials available. If done well, you may also use this after missions month, as you study other Bible Stories taking place in different places.
  • Look at a real passport and create a version of your own with places for VISA stamps etc. Here’s some sample text you can us on the inside: “The King of Kings hereby requests all who it may concern to permit this citizen of Heaven (statute Phil: 3:20) named herein to go into all the world and in case of need to be provided with all necessary aid and protection from enemies of God’s Kingdom. (statute John 17:17-18)
  • If you have a polaroid camera, you can even take pictures of the participants for their passports. Another option is to ask them to bring a picture of themselves for the next week. Neoprint pictures also work well.
  • Get stickers or make stamps for various locations that Paul visited with the Gospel. Set up stations where youth can learn about each location or study one each week and let the youth get a stamp for that week!

What to do
“Traveling, through the Bible takes us to many wonderful places. We can travel through the promised land with Joshua, or wander in the desert with Moses. We can travel with Paul to Asia Minor and with Philip to see the Ethiopian. The Bible is like a passport to many places. As we read the scriptures, we will travel to different places, meet different people, and learn more about missionaries. ”
Talk about some of the places PAUL visited in his missionary journeys. You may wish to summarize some of the places Paul visited and or read a narrative to the students. If you are really feeling creative, have someone dress up as Paul and tell them about the various places he visited. Have youth write down the names of places Paul visited and what happened there.

Variations

  • Options aside from Paul are: Peter, Timothy, etc. Look in the book of Acts.
  • The Church and the Golden Age of missionaries – William Carey, and other famous missionaries.
  • The church and World Evangelism – Unreached People Groups
  • Current Missionaries supported by your church and the places they are serving

Paul’s Missionary Journeys
This is an outline of a few of the places Paul visited with possible object lessons or symbols.

  • Antioch – was called the “Queen of the East” because of its beauty, being situated on a river, with an island civic center linked to the shore by 5 bridges. It was situated at intersection of caravan routes between east, west, north, and south. Could be symbolized by a beautiful island in the middle of a river with a bridge and palm trees or by a caravan of camels.
  • Philippi – was located on the east-west highway connecting Rome to Asia. Here Paul preached the gospel beside a river, was later beaten, placed in stocks, and placed in prison. It was here he established the first church on the European Continent. Famous among its ruins today is the foundations of a great arch believed Paul passed through to go to the river and preach the gospel. Could be symbolized by an arch next to the river or a whip or prison bars.
  • Cypress – Third largest island in the Mediterranean, famous for its copper mines. Paul traveled by ship to reach it.
  • Paphos, on the island was a naval station. This location could be symbolized by an island with lots of ships around it or by a copper pot.
  • Pamphylia – Was a fortress surrounded by marshes full of malaria carrying mosquitos. A fortress and mosquitos or insects could symbolize this location.
  • Pisidian Antioch – here Paul proclaimed the gospel but was driven out of the city by an angry mob – Could be symbolized by the mob.
  • Lystra – Here the people thought Paul and Barnabus were gods. The people here also had a mob, but the stones Paul until they thought he was dead and drug him outside the city. Stones could represent this city.
  • Jerusalem – Could be symbolized by the star of David (two intersecting triangles) or the temple or a menorah.
  • Troas – Near the ancient city of Troy – famous for its wooden horse. It was here where Paul saw his vision of a man from Macedonia asking Paul to come help them.
  • Thessaloniaca – located on the great northern highway and could be symbolized by this highway.
  • Athens – Could be symbolized by the Acropolis and Parthenon or by a question mark as it was here that Paul delivered his famous presentation of the Gospel in front of the temple to an unknown God.
  • Corinth – was famous for its temple to Aphrodite, the goddess of love. It was here he met Priscilla and Aquila, tentmakers like himself. A tent would be a good symbol for this city.
  • Ephesus – was famous for its temple to Artemis and a sacred stone which had fallen from the sky (meteorite) and its magicians and healers. The people didn’t like him because he was taking away their business by doing real acts of God instead of magic tricks etc.
  • Caesaria – while in Jail here he wrote many of his letters to the churches. Letters might be a good symbol of this place.
  • Rome – Paul was placed under house arrest here and later out under trial for treason, convicted and beheaded outside the gates.

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Knocked Down

Central Teaching Truth
Sometimes when it seems like life is knocking us down, God is there to pick us up. Though we are all fallen, God takes our place and renews us unto life.

Bible Text
2 Corinthians 5:21, Romans 5:8, Isaiah 53:5-12

Resources
Get the softest ball you can find- something that will not injure a person no matter how hard youth throw it.

Preparation
Take youth to an open area. Toss the ball into the center and then explain the rules of the game.

The Rules

  • This is a typical game of dodge ball — you pick up a ball, toss it, and if someone gets hit by the ball they must sit down where-ever they are.
  • If someone catches a tossed ball, the person who threw it must sit down.
  • When someone is hit, they are not completely out of the game. They can still grab a ball rolling by and throw it at someone still standing. However, they may NOT move around to get a ball but must stay sitting in the same place once they have been eliminated. If you want to make the game last longer, when someone sitting down hits an active player, they get to switch places and the person sitting down can get back up and continue playing.
  • When everyone is sitting down except one person, that person is the winner.

Take it to the Next Level
The circumstances of life, people, and even Satan may knock us down, but God helps us back up! We have all fallen, but God lifts us up. Christ, in his death on the cross, exchanged places with us. He died in our place that we might live. (2 Corinthians 5:21, Romans 5:8, Isaiah 53:5-12)


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Workers in the Vineyard

Central Teaching Truth
God is generous and treats us all alike

Bible Text
Story of the Workers in the Vineyard (Matthew 20:1-15)

Resources
Obtain M&M (snack) rewards or other rewards like bookmarks etc. for everyone

What to do/ say

  1. Begin by asking the children if they like to play ‘Let’s pretend’. Who do they like to pretend to be? Ask children what they would like to be when they grow up?
  2. Do any of them ever pretend to be servants? Would they like to be servants when they grow up? Probably not!
  3. Announce that you are going to have a pretend game now and give out some jobs that some volunteers can pretend to do for you. Perhaps someone could pretend to clean your car. Someone else could pretend to cook your dinner. Others could make your bed, tidy your bookshelves, iron your clothes or whatever. Come prepared with a list relevant to your situation. Finally, ask the rest to pretend to hang up your coat. Then call a halt to the proceedings, and announce that it is time for the payments to be made for the work done. Everybody receives one snack.

Debrief
Talk about what has taken place and ask whether the children think it is fair that everybody received the same reward. Sometimes life doesn’t seem fair…. but God is always fair. But I never told you i was going to give anyone a gift. A gave you a gift for helping me because I am a generous person. I didn’t give it to you because you were good, but because I am good. God gives us gifts, not because we are good, but because HE is good.


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Jesus Lead Us

Central Teaching Truth
When life is unfair, God will help us through.

Bible Text
My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never die, and no one can steal them out of my hand (John 10:27-28).

Resources
You’ll need three or four blindfolds and several objects to set up a small obstacle course. Ask one or two adult assistants to help you set up the course. Alternatively, blindfold everyone and lead them about the church.

What to do/ say

  1. As you begin your message, have your assistants set up an obstacle course in front of the area where the children sit.
  2. “Has anyone here ever gone through an obstacle course?” Let children respond.
  3. “Obstacle courses are used to train soldiers to run fast and to be quick and alert when they’re on the battlefield. We’ve set up a little obstacle course here today.” Describe the course you’ve set up.
  4. “Could I have three or four volunteers to try my obstacle course?” Choose three or four children. Let them begin the course and then stop them.
  5. “Oh, I forgot to tell you. You have to do this obstacle course blindfolded. But don’t worry, I’ll lead you.” Have the volunteers hold hands. Then lead them through the obstacle course. Other children may call out directions or encouragement.
  6. When children have completed the course, remove their blindfolds and have them sit down. “There, we made it! Congratulations!” Lead children in applause for volunteers.

Debrief

  1. “What would have happened if the blindfolded volunteers had to go through the obstacle course without a leader?” Let children respond.
  2. “Without a leader, they might have stumbled and fallen. The Bible says Jesus leads us like a shepherd leads sheep. Listen.” Read the scripture text from John 10:27-28.
  3. “When we’re following Jesus, we can’t always see what’s up ahead. Sometimes things may seem difficult and even unfair, but Jesus will always lead us, just like I led our brave volunteers.”
  4. “Of course, what happens in real life is a bit different from our obstacle course. When we’re following Jesus, we don’t reach the end of the obstacle course until we get to heaven. Yet, no matter how many obstacles are in our way, Jesus will always lead us through.”


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On the Mount of God

“In the rarefied atmosphere of Tibet, at fifteen thousand feet, you see things differently. It seems that you can see forever. The water looks different. The sky looks different. Everything looks different. When we are standing on the mount of God, everything looks different…

God must lift us into the glory realm so that we can see the earth from heaven’s perspective. We have lived on this earthly level so long that we see things totally out of perspective…

When Jim Irwin went to the moon, the thing that amazed him was that the earth appeared to be the size of a golf ball. It was life-changing for him. He determined that if God could love this small earth so much that He was willing to send His Son, then he would go back to earth and dedicate his life to the ministry. He took a golf ball with him wherever he went as a reminder of that perspective…”

Source: Ruth Ward Heflin “Glory-Experiencing the Atmosphere of Heaven”


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Walking in Faith (Trust)

Description
Faith and trust are much the same thing in the Christian Experience. We trust in God and have faith that he will guide us and protect us in our walk with Him.

Materials
a blindfold

Preparation
Scatter chairs and obstacles around the room.

What to Do

  • Ask for a volunteer.
  • Explain that the volunteer will be blind-folded and then receive directions from you to walk from predetermined points A to B in the room.
  • The goal is to get the volunteer to the predetermined destination without bumping into things.
  • Before blindfolding the volunteer ask, “Do you trust me to guide you? “Do you have faith in yourself and in me to get from here to there without being able to see where you’re going? I will be with you for the journey and guide you along the way. Are you ready?”

Take It to the Next Level
You can use this to illustrate faith, trust, and also raise awareness of visual impairment and other physical challenges.

  • How is this similar to following God?
  • How is this like our spiritual walk in faith?
  • Why do you think the Bible calls our spiritual life a “walk”?
  • In what ways does God guide us?
  • What is the destination that God has planned in advance for us?
  • Is everyone’s journey the same?
  • What lessons can you learn from this to help you in your own spiritual walk?
  • What is ONE step you will take this week in your spiritual walk?


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