Don’t Walk

A little old lady in New York for the first time, crossed Times Square against traffic and somehow managed to make it safely to the opposite curb, where a traffic cop was glaring at her with strong disapproval. “Didn’t you see that sign?” he asked.

“What sign?” the lady asked.

The policeman pointed at the flashing warning on the traffic signal, “DON’T WALK.”

“Oh I saw it all right,” the lady said, “but I thought it was an ad for a bus company.”

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Take Up Your Cross

By Rob Heverling (robhev@yahoo.com)

Used with Permission

Steve is standing up front moving boxes around as if he is cleaning up when his friend Nate walks into the scene carrying a big heavy cross.

Nate- (out of breath) Hey Steve!

Steve – Hey Nate (looking at Nate curiously) uh…what are you doing with that cross Nate?

Nate – Oh this thing. (Struggling to talk as he drags the cross across the floor) Well I have been doing a lot of reading lately. You see I decided the other day that I needed to do more for Jesus. So one of the things I decided to do more of was read the bible.

Steve – Oh! Well that’s great sounds like you have finally realized that the bible is important to the believer. But why the cross?

Nate – Well I was reading about some of the things Jesus said and this one verse really stood out…I think it was in Matthew, where Jesus says, “if anyone wishes to come after me let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me”. I read that and thought Hey that’s me…I want to follow Jesus so I went out and made this beauty in the back yard and well now I’m following Jesus just like he said I should.

Steve – Nate I don’t think that is quite what Jesus had in mind when he said you should take up your cross.

Nate – huh, what do you mean?

Steve– Well Nate what I think Jesus was saying is if you want to follow him you need to deny or forget about the things that you want and think more about doing things the way God wants you too. That’s what he meant Nate about taking up your cross; he was talking about sacrificing your life for him. You got part of it right though, your in the word God wants us all in his word because that’s where we learn how God wants us to live, you were just a little off on your interpretation of what it was really saying.

Nate – Oh…so you’re saying I really don’t need the cross.

Steve – That would be correct Nate.

Nate turns and heads quickly up the center isle dragging the cross.

Steve – Nate where are you going?

Nate – I have to get this home quick, I didn’t have any wood around the house so I kind of used parts of my neighbors fence to make it. If I hurry, I may be able to put it back together before he gets home from work. I’ll talk to you later.

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Family Portrait

Description
An icebreaker game for your next family focused youth event.

Resources
None

Preparation
None

What to do

  1. Organize the youth into a circle facing outward with siblings standing together.
  2. Organize the parents into a larger circle around the youth with spouses standing together. Parents should be facing their children in the inner circle. If some of the parents of the youth are not at the meeting designate sponsors as temporary parents.
  3. On “Go” parents will rotate their circle by walking clockwise whereas the youth will rotate their circle walking counter clockwise.
  4. When you yell out “Family Portrait” youth and parents must find each other as quickly as possible and line up together cheek to cheek grinning. (You might want to have some photographers around to take a few fun photos.)
  5. The last family to line up cheek to cheek is eliminated from the circle and the game continues.
  6. Continue to play until there is only one family left. Declare them the winners!

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Memory Flip

Description
A life-size version of the classic memory card game (Also known in some places as “Concentration”) where you attempt to remove all the cards from the game by flipping over two matching cards.

Key Truths
When we confess our sin, God chooses to remember them no more. At the same time he always knows and remembers our needs.

Materials
None

Preparation

  1. Send two youth from the room along with a youth leader so that they are out of sight and ear shot of the rest of the group.
  2. While the two youth are away, the remainder of the youth pair up and choose a matching sound to make such as a whistle, a couple, a choo choo train, a bird call, chicken cluck, etc. Have the pairs scramble themselves up and lie face down on the floor in rows like cards laid out in grid.

Game Play

  1. Bring the two youth back into the room.
  2. They take turns calling the names of two youths on the floor, who will turn over and make their sounds. When a matching sound is found, the pair stands behind the person who matched them.
  3. When a person makes a correct match, they get an additional turn.
  4. The player with the most matches at the end wins the game.

Take it to the Next Level

  1. Read Jeremiah 31:34, Hebrews 8:12, Hebrews 10:17-18; and Matthew 10:29-31.
  2. What does scripture tell us about God’s memory?
  3. Compare God’s memory with our memory.
  4. What are some truths we can learn about our relationship with God and what he chooses to remember and chooses to forget?


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How well do you know your youth?

Choose one youth by name then ask yourself the following questions:

RELATIONSHIPS

  • Describe your relationship with this youth.
  • How would this youth describe his or her relationship with you?
  • How well does this youth relate to the rest of his peers?
  • Describe this youth’s relationship with his or her parents.

IDENTITY

  • How would this youth describe himself or herself?
  • What strengths and weaknesses would this youth identify about himself / herself?
  • What are this youth’s goals in life?
  • How does this youth spend his or her free time?

SPIRITUAL

  • Describe his or her level of involvement in church and youth activities?
  • Why dos this youth come to church and other youth events?
  • How does he or she feel about church and Bible study?
  • How important does this youth consider his or her relationship with God?
  • What evidence of spiritual growth in the life of this youth can you see?
  • What spiritual gifts does this youth manifest in his or her life and how can you develop these through the life of the church and through involvement in the youth program?


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How teens can give their parents a heart attack

  1. Brag about your parents once in a while. Let them know you are proud of them and tell others about it.
  2. Say “Yes” when your parents ask you to do something with them. They will be elated to know you are not ashamed to be seen with them.
  3. Be grateful for your parents. Parents really respond when their children occasionally say, “Thank you.” Give mom and dad credit for what they have done and are doing for you.
  4. Give your parents reason to be proud of the way you dress, how clean you keep your room, how consistently you practice your music lessons, and how you feel about God and your church.
  5. Be understanding if your parents are impatient. When they can’t buy you something you need right away, or when they worry about you more than you feel is necessary, try to see it their way.
  6. Give your parents a hug and say, “I love you” and show that you mean it.

If you follow these simple steps you’ll give your mom and dad a “heart attack” of new appreciation of restored communication and of love refreshed!

Try it!

(Adapted: Source unknown)

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Recent inactivity

Thanks for your patience with the recent inactivity as I had to make a trip from Singapore to the USA to attend my father’s funeral. My Father is now with the heavenly father. The world has lost a great and compassionate man, but my father has gained the riches of heaven!

Jesus Sees Us with the Eye of a Carpenter

I wonder if He grew impatient as He awaited word from His Father that now He might proceed. Surely it was a difficult thing for Jesus of Nazareth to work day by day in the carpentry shop, while daily He could see the suffering, the pain, the torment His people were living through, dying through, while He did nothing more than watch and pray. Watch and pray! How many times did He petition His Father, how many times did He take His request to the great throne and ask, “Now, Father? Do I start now?”

We know He was a carpenter’s son, and that He had taken up His earthly father’s trade. Think of the chair that He would fashion. It would be level beyond that which any tool could measure. It would be smooth, every square inch planed and sanded to perfection. And why not? The wood He used was from the tree He created. And what of a bed made by the hands of the Creator? Would one sleep an especially good night’s sleep in such a bed?

I often wonder about the people, who lived in His village. Did they threaten Him, intimidate Him? Did they demand He stop what He was doing and satisfy their needs immediately. Did they haggle price with Him, demean His work in order to achieve special discounts. Did they treat Him like an inferior person because He worked with His hands, while many of His customers lived a style of life much higher than His?

Or did they know, somehow recognize the peace that was surely His trademark? Did they speak softly in His presence, or did they curse, brag and demand? How often I have spoken to a tradesman and felt that this man could not begin to have the importance I felt I possessed.

How often I have condescended to bribe, to intimidate, to distract a worker from his appointed task, feeling that which I needed would be of greater import than anything else he was engaged with at the time. How often I have been arrogant, how often I have been proud!

And did they treat Him like that? Imagine the Son of God listening with patience while a woman describes how he wants a table made, or a cabinet hung. He listens gently, as He did all things gently, and waits for her to finish. She is concerned that His work last a long time. A guarantee, she asks? She wanted assurances from this craftsman that His work will last as long as she expects it to.

How kind He was to listen, to explain, to be one of us, to interact with us, and to do so from an inferior posture. He would someday judge her, this customer in His shop. But not that day. That day He would listen. That day He would give to her all she demanded. He would not be offended by her bickering, her incessant chatter about the quality of workmanship being less now than when she was a girl.

And when she had finished, He would guide her out of His workshop, and return to begin the task for which she had engaged Him. He would select the right piece of lumber, lumber He Himself had caused to grow, and He would carry it to the bench. His hands were strong, His back was solid.

He worked with skill and confidence, for his father, Joseph, had taught Him, the creator of the universe, how to build. He would look at the coarse lumber, and see a finished cabinet, much as He still looks at the sinner and sees a saint. Working with patience, tenacity and love, He would take ordinary, common wood and turn it into a work of art. He could do no less. For the Son of Man would do nothing cheaply, nothing slipshod.

And to this day, He still takes the common, the ordinary, the unspecial material, and produces works of art. There is nothing in me to catch the eye of a Master, I was cheap and common and of no value to anyone save myself. But His learned eye saw past what the world would see, and He knew I was indeed a special piece of wood. He took me in His hands and molded me, sanded me and polished me.

When He is finished with me, He will present me to His Father and say, “Behold, Father, this one is mine.” And on that day, as I stand before the God that created me, and the One that drew me to His Son, I will be grateful that it is into the hands of a gentle, loving carpenter that I came to be a finished work of art. Not by virtue of what I was, but by virtue of the Master’s hand!

Author: Phillip E. Mahfood
Source: Unknown

 


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Valentines Wink’em

Game Description
This is a classic Valentine’s Day game where the objective is for the girls to catch a guy or vice versa!

Materials
Chairs for everyone

What to do

  1. Seat all the guys in a circle.
  2. Leave one chair empty.
  3. A girl stands behind each chair (including the empty one) with her hands behind her back.
  4. The objective is for the girl standing behind the empty chair to get a guy into her chair. She does this by winking at one of the guys.
  5. The guy winked at tries to run and sit in the empty chair without being tagged by the girl behind his chair.
  6. If successful the guy takes his new seat and become her Valentine and the game continues with the girl who just lost her guy.
  7. At some point, you may switch and put the girls in the chairs and let the guys do the winking. (But make sure they are gentle when they tag the girls)


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Toothless Valentine

Materials
Love songs to play while the youth are enjoying this game.

Game Objective
Don’t Laugh!

Game Play

  1. Everyone sits in a circle.
  2. From this point forward, you may not show your teeth.
  3. To speak, you must pull your lips inward around your teeth to hide them.
  4. A question is started, related to Valentine’s Day. For example, “Would you like a rose for Valentines day?”
  5. The person asked then replies “I don’t know I’ll have to ask my neighbor.” He then asks the neighbor the same question without showing his teeth.
  6. This keeps going around the circle.
  7. When someone’s teeth show due to laughter, he or she is out. Once it goes all the way around the circle, the next person gets to change the question. Smiling is permitted provided the teeth don’t show.
  8. The choice of questions can be a source of laughter so question choice is important.
  9. When asking or answering, contorting the facial muscles may be used to try to make the person next to you laugh.
  10. If a question is vulgar or suggestive, the person is removed from the game.

Variation
Add a few lines of Solomon and have youth repeat them all the way around the circle. Can you quote them without showing your teeth? When everyone has quoted it go around again with a different verse. Here are some classics from the 4th chapter of Song of Solomon.

verse 1
How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful!
Your eyes behind your veil are doves.
Your hair is like a flock of goats
descending from Mount Gilead.

verse 2
Your teeth are like a flock of sheep just shorn,
coming up from the washing.
Each has its twin;
not one of them is alone.

verse 3
Your lips are like a scarlet ribbon;
your mouth is lovely.
Your temples behind your veil
are like the halves of a pomegranate.

verse 4
Your neck is like the tower of David,
built with elegance;
on it hang a thousand shields,
all of them shields of warriors.


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