The Father’s Eyes

Bob Richards, the former pole-vault champion, shares a moving story about a skinny young boy who loved football with all his heart.

Practice after practice, he eagerly gave everything he had. But being half the size of the other boys, he got absolutely nowhere.

At all the games, this hopeful athlete sat on the bench and hardly ever played.

This teenager lived alone with his father, and the two of them had a very special relationship. Even though the son was always on the bench, his father was always in the stands cheering. He never missed a game. This young man was still the smallest of the class when he entered high school. But his father continued to encourage him, but also made it very clear that he did not have to play football if he didn’t want to. But the young man loved football, and decided to hang in there.

He was determined to try his best at every practice, and perhaps he’d get to play when he became a senior. All through high school he never missed a practice nor a game, but remained a bench-warmer all four years. His faithful father was always in the stands, always with words of encouragement for him.

When the young man went to college, he decided to try out for the football team as a “walk-on.” Everyone was sure he could never make the cut, but he did. The coach admitted that he kept him on the roster because he always put his heart and soul to every practice, and at the same time, provided the other members with the spirit and hustle they badly needed.

The news that he had survived the cut thrilled him so much that he rushed to the nearest phone and called his father. His father shared his excitement and was sent season tickets for all the college games. This persistent young athlete never missed practice during his four years at college, but he never got to play in a game. It was the end of his senior football season, and as he trotted onto the practice field shortly before the big playoff game, the coach met him with a telegram.

The young man read the telegram and he became deathly silent. Swallowing hard, he mumbled to the coach, “My father died this morning. Is it all right if I miss practice today?” The coach put his arm gently around his shoulder and said, “Take the rest of the week off, son. And don’t even plan to come back to the game on Saturday.”

Saturday arrived, and the game was not going well. In the third quarter, when the team was ten points behind, a silent young man quietly slipped into the empty locker room, put on his football gear, and as he ran onto the sidelines, the coach and his players were astounded to see their faithful teammate back so soon. “Coach, please let me play. I’ve just got to play today,” said the young man. The coach pretended not to hear him. There was no way he wanted his worst player in this close playoff game.

But the young man persisted, and finally feeling sorry for the kid, the coach gave in. “All right,” he said. “You can go in.”

Before long, the coach, the players and everyone in the stands could not believe their eyes. This little unknown, who had never played before was doing everything right. The opposing team could not stop him. He ran, he passed, blocked, and tackled like a star.

His team began to triumph. The score was soon tied. In the closing seconds of the game, this kid intercepted a pass and ran all the way for the winning touchdown. The fans broke loose. His teammates hoisted him onto their shoulders. Such cheering you never heard.

Finally, after the stands had emptied, and the team had showered and left the locker room, the coach noticed that this young man was sitting quietly in the corner, all alone. The coach came to him and said, “Kid, I can’t believe it. You were fantastic! Tell me what got into you? How did you do it?”

He looked at the coach, with tears in his eyes, and said, “Well, you knew my dad died, but did you know that my dad was blind?” The young man swallowed hard and forced a smile, “Dad came to all my games, but today was the first time he could see me play, and I wanted to show him I could do it!”

Like the athlete’s father, God is always there cheering for us. He’s always reminding us to go on.

His eyes are always on us!

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Champions

“Let me win. But if I cannot win, let me be brave in the attempt.”
-Special Olympics Oath-

Champions are not those who never fail, they are those who never quit…Men love winners. They want to be identified with winners. Men open a newspaper and turn directly to the sports page because it features winners, while the front page usually features losers…Champions are the right man, in the right place, at the right time. Timing is all important.

God has an eternal clock which was started from the beginning of time to make you become a champion for Him. To become a champion, you must see yourself as a champion. Hanging on to the fear of failure, the sins of others and past mistakes will keep you from becoming a champion. Champions are made, not born. Many champions start with severe handicaps in life, but in making the effort to overcome, they find the ability to continue until they have excelled beyond those even without handicaps…The athlete, the farmer and the soldier all have different ways of winning. Each of them does his training, plowing or exercising in private, and they show their abilities in public…The fainthearted never win, they wilt. They start well, but fade before they finish…

Joshua was a member of the championship team. He could hardly stand to see other men who didn’t feel the way he did, and finally issued the challenge that lives on forever:

‘Choose this day whom you will serve,
but as for me and my house,
we will serve the Lord’

I’m proud to be on Joshua’s team!”

Edwin Louis Cole- “Courage – Winning Life’s Toughest Battles”
(ISBN 0-89274-873-7)


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Earlier

An 85-year-old couple, after being married for almost 60 years, died in a car crash. They had been in good health the last ten years, mainly due to her interest in health food and exercising.

When they reached the Pearly Gates, St. Peter took them to their mansion, which was decked out with a beautiful kitchen, master bath suite and a Jacuzzi.

As they looked around, the old man asked St. Peter how much all this was going to cost.

“It’s free,” St. Peter replied, “this is Heaven.”

Next, they went out in the back yard to survey the championship-style golf course that the home was located. They would have golfing privileges every day and each week, the course changed to a new one representing the great golf courses on earth.

The old man asked, “What are the green fees?”

St. Peter replied, “This is heaven, you play for free.”

Next, they went to the club house and saw the lavish buffet lunch with the cuisines of the World laid out.

“How much to eat?” asked the old man.

“Don’t you understand yet? This is heaven, it is free!” St. Peter replied, with some exasperation.

“Well, where are the low fat and low cholesterol tables?” the old man asked timidly.

St. Peter lectured, “That’s the best part – you can eat as much as you like of whatever you like and you never get fat and you never get sick. This is Heaven.”

With that, the old man went into a fit of anger, throwing down his hat and stomping on it, and screaming wildly.

St. Peter and his wife both tried to calm him down, asking him what was wrong. The old man looked at his wife and said, “This is all your fault! If it weren’t for your blasted bran muffins, I could have been here ten years ago!”

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Helping Youth to Understand Cults

Background Scriptures

  • Galatians 1:6-9
  • II Cor. 11:3-15
  • II Timothy 3:1-16
  • 1 Timothy 4:3-4
  • Colosssians 2:8-23
  • Proverbs 14:12

The ‘Marks’ of a Cult –

DEIFY MAN
Man may become a god. Man only needs to ‘progress’ (as defined by the cult and only with the cult’s help) to become like God.
Genesis 3:1-13, Isaiah 14:9-19, 2 Thess 2:3-4.

HUMANIZE GOD
Deny that God is ONE eternally. Deny the Trinity. There are ‘many’ gods and redefine God to Man’s image.
Romans 1:21-25 I Isaiah 43 :10-11 and 44:6-8 I Psalm 90:2

MINIMIZE SIN
Instead of man’s very nature being separated from God, sin is only specific acts that through good works can be perfected. Hell is redefined into bland or non existent punishment.
Romans 3:23, I John 1:8-10, Gal 3:10, Revelation 20:14-15

OSTRACIZE THE SCRIPTURES
They will add additional scripture and claim that there is error in God’s Word. Continual change of meaning in scripture.
Luke 21:33, Revelation 22:18-19, Isaiah 40:8, Acts 17:11

A DIFFERENT JESUS
Jesus is not the Son of God, but rather a son of A god – or He was just a prophet – or a created god – or our elder brother – or just a good man or a teacher.
Isaiah 9:6-7, John 1:1-14, Colossians 1:15-20, Hebrews 1:1-12

A DIFFERENT SALVATION
Deny Salvation by Grace, by the shed blood of Jesus on the Cross at Calvary and by true repentance of sin by a sinner. Usually will not see a cross on the cult’s structures. Salvation must include works, and quite often by a system dictated by the cult.
Eph 2:8-10, Gal 3:1-26, I Peter 2:24

DIFFERENT SPIRIT
The Holy Spirit is changed into a ‘good force’ or impersonal entity. Deny God the Spirit. Spiritism is, generally, rampant by having visits from spirits, counterfeit miracles, etc.
I Timothy 4:1, Deut 18:9-14, John 14:17

MODERN DAY PROPHET
Founded by man, followed by others who claim to be God’s one true spokesman on Earth. Accountable to no one but God. Gives revelation and scripture.
Jeremiah 23, Matthew 24:24, Hebrews 1:1-2, Deut 13:1-10;18:20-22

THE ONLY TRUE CHURCH
Their group is the only true way to perfection. The word ‘truth’ used over and over. Unless you are active part of their organization. You are lost. Deny the spiritual union of believers.
Col 1:18, Eph 1:22-23, Romans 12:1-8

SECRETS .. CLOSED TO THE OUTSIDE WORLD
Secret rituals, temples and doctrines. Finances not public. No communion with Christian body. All others are outsiders. No one knows the truth as they (and their prophet) do. Persecution complex.

CANNOT LEAVE
Always testing loyalty of followers. Obedience (blind) is primary. Leaders have all power – are followers intermediary with God – not Jesus. Only way to leave is by excommunication. Threats, Spiritual bondage, fear and guilt most common. If you leave, you are cut off from all in cult.

A cult is where:

  1. God is brought down to a lower level in regard to His identity. (What He is really like)
  2. God is brought down to a lower level in regard to His uniqueness. (Is there anyone else like Him?)
  3. Man is elevated in regard to his basic sin nature. (What he is really like)
  4. Man is elevated in regard to his potential. (Will man become like God?)
  5. Christ is brought down to a lower level in regard to His identity. (Who He is)
  6. Christ is brought down in regard to His mission. (What He came to do)
  7. Faith is reduced to a meaningless term. (Cults trust in the works of some part of creation for salvation)
  8. Heaven is presented as a place for the elite, or where everyone will go, or a place that is merely symbolic.


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The Smell of Durian

If you were to describe your life as a fragrance to the world, what would it be? Why?

  • Boy’s Locker room
  • A rose
  • Incense
  • Fish market
  • Fresh baked bread
  • Cinnamon and Spice
  • Sewer
  • Freshly picked peach
  • Durian
  • Socks
  • Potpourri
  • Roasted Meat
  • Cigarette Smoke
  • Other?

 

durian.jpg
Each of these scents probably created images in your mind associated with the smell. One item in the list, Durian might be new to you.

How is the “King of Kings” like the “King of fruits?”
Durian has been called the “King of Fruits” and is native to Indonesia, Malaysia, and Brunei, although it can grow in any similar climate. Alfred Wallace, the natural historian who co-originated the theory of Natural Selection with Charles Darwin, describes the taste of durian in his book The Malay Archipelago: “A rich butter-like custard highly flavoured with almonds gives the best general idea of it, but intermingled with it comes wafts of flavour that call to mind cream-cheese, onion-sauce, brown sherry, and other incongruities.”

Anyone who loves Durian likes the smell. Their mouth may water at merely the smell. Many others can’t get past the smell to even try to taste it, and may even describe it as smelling “like something has died.” Paul compares Christians to a fragrance much like that of Durian.

Read 2 Corinthians 2:12-16

  • How can the same gospel be either the smell of death or the fragrance of life?
  • What determines the character of the fragrance?
  • How can you spread the aroma of Christ in your home, in school, in the workplace, and in the neighborhood?
  • What images might the fragrance of your lifestyle have on others?
  • How can you become more “the fragrance of Christ” to others?

 

Notice that Paul says “through us,” meaning it is not through angels but through the church-through Christians, through those who Jesus said are the salt of the earth and the light of the world–that the knowledge of Christ comes to the world.

A Fragrance
We must remember the purpose of the fragrance. It is like your reputation in that it precedes you. You don’t need a letter of recommendation. Our lifestyles become our letter. But the letter by itself isn’t enough. The fragrance by itself is not enough. It is merely to open the door so we can share the Gospel, share the knowledge of Jesus Christ.

  • In what ways can your life be an open door to the sharing of the gospel?

 

Pray that God might make the following verse true of your life:
“But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ, and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him”
– 2 Corinthians 2:14

Copyright 1998 by Ken Sapp


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Saved By The Cross

Back before the collapse of communism the government of Poland issued an order that all crucifixes were to be removed from classroom walls, just as they had been banned in factories, hospitals, and other public institutions. Many church leaders protested stirring waves of anger and resentment all across Poland.

Ultimately the government relented, insisting that the law remain on the books, but agreeing not to press for the removal of the crucifixes, particularly in the schoolrooms.

But one zealous Communist school administrator decided that the law was the law. So one evening he had seven large crucifixes removed from lecture halls where they had hung since the school’s founding in the twenties. Days later, a group of parents entered the school and hung more crosses. The administrator promptly had these crosses taken down as well.

The next day two-thirds of the school’s six hundred students staged a sit-in. When heavily armed riot police arrived, the students were forced into the streets. Then they marched, crucifixes held high, to a nearby church where they were joined by twenty-five hundred other students from nearby schools for a morning of prayer in support of the protest.

Soldiers surrounded the church. But the pictures from inside of students holding crosses high above their heads flashed around the world. So did the words of the priest who delivered the message to the weeping congregation that morning. “There is no Poland without a cross.”

Charles Colson, “Kingdoms In Conflict”
(Zondervan, ISBN 0-310-39770-7)

 


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The Lord’s Prayer with Actions

(Introduction)
In kneeling position, fold hands in prayer and bow heads.

Our Father
Raise eyes upward.

Which art in Heaven
Raise arms straight upward, separating them on the word “heaven.”

Hallowed be Thy Name
Bring hands before face, then bend forward in a low bow with arms extended forward.

Thy Kingdom come
Rise to a straight kneeling position – arms open wide with the desire to clasp humanity close.

Thy Will be done
On the word “Will” lift left knee so that by the end of the phrase you will be standing and bring arms in to enclose humanity.

On earth
Eyes upward, arms downward

As it is in Heaven
(People in back rise) Eyes upward. Circle arms upward and down.

Give us this day our daily bread
Cup hand in raised position as if to receive, taking three steps forward.

And forgive us our debts
Cross arms on breast – look upward

As we forgive our debtors
Uncross arms to the side – look downward, taking two steps backward.

And lead us not into temptation
Take one step to the right, arms to the left as if pushing away

But deliver us from evil
Arms move from left position to a strong reaching upward to the right.

For Thine
Arms stretched wide open.

Is the Kingdom and the
Arms raised by degrees

power and the glory Forever
Arms circle down and cross in front

Amen
Arms gradually lower until four counts after the music has completely stopped. Head is bowed.
Adapted from p. 192 in “The Art of the Rhythmic Choir” by Margaret Palmer Fisk


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Draw Your Name

Game Description
This is a fun icebreaker activity for youth that do not know each other at all. Youth will try to reveal their name to a partner merely by drawing. No other communication is allowed.

Game Materials
Whiteboard, chalkboard, or simply paper

Game Preparation
None

Game Play
Youth attempt to reveal their name to someone they DO NOT KNOW by using only drawings. This can be done one at a time before the group or in pairs. For someone who’s name is sandy this might be as simple as drawing a beach with sand. For someone like Stephanie it may involve several words like step+hand+knee = Stephanie. Others may prove very difficult.

Optional Discussion

  • Whose name do you think was most difficult to communicate? Why?
  • Would you prefer to see a photograph or hear the story?
  • Do you find it easier to express yourself in words or through images?
  • Have you ever felt handicapped in trying to communicate your faith?
  • In what ways is this activity similar to sharing your faith?
  • What concepts in sharing your faith are most difficult to communicate?

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