Famous Mentors: Mentor

mentor.jpgIn the eighth century BC, the Greek writer Homer wrote an epic poem describing Odysseus’s adventures during his 10-year voyage home after the Trojan War. While he was gone, he entrusted the care and education of his beloved son, Telemachus, to his faithful friend Mentor. Almost three thousand years later that man’s name has come to mean a wise and trusted counselor.


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Drama in the Church

  1. What is drama?
  2. Controversy Surrounding
  3. Ways to Utilize
  4. How to Get Started
  5. Resources

An excellent article on using drama in the church by Becky Fox

It is said, “A picture is worth a thousand words.” There are also single words that conjure up vivid images – words like boom, sizzle, festival, surprise, Chicago. Drama takes both of these pieces – words and pictures – and creates an engaging expression of existence. Drama is communication and as such must include a giver and a receiver. Traditionally, the giver would be those on the stage, and the receiver, those in the audience. Today, drama is comprised of many creative expressions that blur the lines between giver and receiver, especially in this electronic age. Traditionally, drama was storytelling through individual spoken word, dialog amongst characters, and/or physical action. This kind of drama took on the forms of character monologues, presentational storytelling, sketches, plays, and pantomime presented by actors before live audiences. Then came the age of displaced receptors – Movies, TV, and Radio – encompassing the forms utililized previously, however now, the actors were performing for cameras, microphones, and technical operators. As the times have changed, so have the forms that encompass those things referred to as dramatic arts. They have grown to include participation on the part of the audience, improvisation by actors, and have even extended as far as oulets of dance and pageantry.

Drama and the theatre have been around for centuries, including within the confines of the church. It was not until the recent “Entertainment Age” that we have seen a resurgence of creative, dramatic, theatrical presentations within the church. For many years the use of anything remotely theatrical was forbidden from most mainline/fundamental/bible-teaching congregations not dissimilar to the ‘music-of-the-day’ creeping into worship services. Whether, it was seen as attempt to modernize the church or help it relate to society, or that eventually for good or bad, the church tends to resemble the culture in which it finds itself, we now find ourselves dropped in the middle of Engaging Entertainment that has brought drama and the creative arts back into the church. Now here in lies the controversy, simply the choice of the word Entertainment to in any way relate to the church or especially worship of our God. Notice the full choice however, Engaging Entertainment. Entertainment for entertainment’s sake is empty and devoid of true meaning or value. It may cause brief laughter or removal from the daily grind, but it doesn’t carry something to hold onto, to grasp, to understand, to engage our minds, our souls. Indeed, without one, one is left happily void, and without the other, reflectively irrememberable. It is in fact a balance of both that makes the dramatic arts creative and worshipful at the same time.

Scripture tells us to worship in spirit and in truth, mentally, physically, and emotionally. Because drama is a creative art form, there are literally an infinite number of ways to utilize it, adapt it, and make it work for any situation. Some options include: tell it yourself, tell it through others, tell it with others, tell it in your own words, tell it in others words, tell it without words. ‘Tell It Yourself’ means that you, as actor, are responsible for conveying the message of the story, problem, expression by yourself to some kind of audience, whether live or remote, hundreds or a few. ‘Tell It Through Others’ implies that there are actors separate from the words. Typically this would be presented as pantomime or to cross language barriers, where the actors are not the ones speaking. A third expression is to ‘Tell It With Others.’ This type of experience is just that, an experience for all involved from actors, directors, and technicians, to the audience alike. Any of these can be presented ultilizing ‘Tell It In Your Own Words’ – something the actor or director has written or adapted as an original art form – or as ‘Tell It in Others Words’ – something the actor or director has found and utilized in the context of worship. ‘Tell It Without Words’ implies choreography or staged pictures, pantomime or pageantry.

Here are some ideas for how to use drama in a church setting: reader’s theatre, Sunday school lesson, sermon introducer or recap, radio theatre, song introduction or recap, practical examples, ice breakers, mime (story/song), plays for outreach, outreach reperatory, telling Bible stories, discussion starters, announcements, involved worship, support groups, etc.

How to get started…. Pray. Determine whether you are the actor or director, producer, or all of the above. Find others of like-mind to help you or at least encourage you as you endeavor to serve God with your gifts, talents, abilities, hopes and dreams. Start slow. Whether its once a year, once a quarter, once a month, or once a week, start with what you can handle. It can be as simple as reading scripture dramatically or as complex as a full Broadway production for a dinner-theatre outreach. Pray. Decide what kind of help you’ll need to pull off whatever your plan is – actors, publicists, designers, script-writers, etc. Find or write, choreograph or adapt your play, sketch, monologue, dance or mime. Pray. Rehearse. Pray. Present. Pray. Recap. Pray.

Performing for an Audience of One…..

Source: Copyright Becky Fox
Used by Permission.

(Becky is the ICHTHUS Drama – Director (a worship and outreach dramatic ministry for 5th -12th grade students) at Liberty Bible Church: www.lbchurch.org and Founding Director of Area Christian Theatre Ensemble – a community theatre organization dedicated to producing family friendly productions with a distinctively Christian worldview. www.areachristiantheatre.org


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Fool

One Sunday a pastor found several letters awaiting him. He opened one and found it contained the single word, “Fool.”

Quietly and with becoming seriousness he shared the letter with the congregation and announced: “I have known many an instance of a person writing a letter and forgetting to sign his name, but this is the only instance I have ever known of someone signing his name and forgetting to write the letter.”

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Recall Notice

The Maker of all human beings is recalling all units manufactured, regardless of make or year, due to the serious defect in the primary and central component of the heart. This is due to a malfunction in the original prototype units, code named Adam and Eve, resulting in the reproduction of the same defect in all subsequent units. This defect has been technically termed, ” Sub-sequential Internal Non-Morality”, or more commonly known as ” S-I-N “. It is primarily symptomized by loss of moral judgment. Some other symptoms:

  • Loss of direction
  • Foul vocal emissions
  • Amnesia of origin
  • Lack of peace and joy
  • Selfish, or violent, behavior
  • Depression or confusion in the mental component.

The manufacturer, who is neither liable nor at fault for this defect, is providing factory authorized repair and service, free of charge to correct this SIN defect. The number to call for the recall station in your area is:
P-R-A-Y-E-R Once connected, please upload your burden of SIN by pressing R-E-P-E-N-T-A-N-C-E. Next, download J-E-S-U-S into the heart. No matter how big or small the SIN defect is, the JESUS repair will replace it with:

  • Love
  • Joy
  • Peace
  • Longsuffering
  • Gentleness
  • Goodness
  • Faith
  • Meekness
  • Temperance

Please see operating manual, ” HOLY BIBLE ” for further details on the use of these fixes.

WARNING: Continuing to operate the human unit without correction, voids the manufacturer’s warranty, exposing owner to dangers and problems too numerous to list and will result in the human unit being permanently impounded.

For free emergency service, call: J-E-S-U-S

DANGER: The human units not receiving this recall action will have to be scrapped in the furnace.


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Teaching as Jesus Taught – Stories

Tips for using Stories.

  • Don’t tell a story without practice.
  • Do not analyze the story. Let the story speak for itself.
  • Don’t make it a sermon. Stories enhance sermons; sermons do not enhance stories.
  • Keep it vivid. Use words that paint mental pictures.
  • Make sure it is appropriate. Age group and context are important considerations.
  • Visualize the story. Rather than memorize, visualize. See the story in your mind’s eye.
  • Consider student vocabulary level.
  • Beware of tangents. tangents tend to confuse.
  • Avoid too many details. Excessive detail also tends to confuse.
  • Don’t show and tell. Use props sparingly Let your words do the communicating.
  • Resist asking for feedback. Let the story simmer in your listeners’ minds.
  • Do not illustrate a story. Stories within stories may work in writing but not in teaching.

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Signs of Low Self-Esteem

  • Your child avoids a task or challenge without even trying. This often signals a fear of failure or s sense of helplessness.
  • He quits soon after beginning a game or a task, giving up at the first sign of frustration.
  • He cheats or lies when he believes he’s going to lose a game or do poorly.
  • He shows signs of regression, acting baby like or very silly. These types of behavior invite teasing and name calling from other youngsters, adding insult to injury.
  • He becomes controlling, bossy, or inflexible as ways of hiding feelings of inadequacy, frustration, or powerlessness.
  • He makes excuses like “the teacher is dumb” or downplays the importance of events like “ I don’t really like that game anyway”. Using this kind of rationalizing to place blame on others or external forces.
  • His grades in school have declined, or he has lost interest in usual activities.
  • He withdraws socially, losing or having less contact with friends.
  • He experiences changing moods, exhibiting sadness, crying, any outbursts, frustration, or quietness.
  • He makes self-critical comments such as “I never do anything right,” “Nobody likes me,” “ I’m ugly,” “It is my fault,” or “Everyone is smarter than I am.”
  • He has difficulty accepting either praise or criticism.
  • He becomes very concerned or sensitive about other people’s opinions of him.
  • He seems to b e strongly affected by negative peer influence, adopting attitudes and behaviors like a disdain for school, cutting classes acting disrespectfully, shoplifting, or experimenting with tobacco, alcohol, or drugs.
  • He is either overly helpful or never helpful at home.


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A Wife’s Promise

Once upon a time, there was an old man who worked all his life and saved all his money. He was a miser, he lived like a pauper, he hardly had food, but he loved his money more than just about anything else in the world.

Just before he died, he said to his wife, “When I die, I want you to take all my money and put it in the casket with me. I need my money in the afterlife. Can you promise me that you’ll do that?”

His wife was faithful, so she promised him with all her heart that when he died, she would put all his money in the casket.

When the old man died his wife gave him a proper funeral. He was laid out in a beautiful casket and his faithful wife was in the front row at the funeral parlor dressed in black, sitting beside her best friend. When the ceremony ended, just before the undertakers got ready to close the casket, the wife rose from her seat and said, “Wait just a minute!”

With that, she placed a box inside the casket. Then the undertakers locked the casket and rolled it away.

The friend grabbed the wife by the arm and said, “Girl, I know you weren’t fool enough to put all that money in the casket with that man, were you?’

The wife said to her friend, “Listen, I am a Christian woman and I can never lie. I promised him that I was going to put the money in his casket with him and I did.”

The friend was horrified and asked, “You mean to tell me that you put all that money in the casket with that man?”

The wife replied, “I sure did…I wrote him a check.”

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Don’t Look So Good

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A rich man was trying to find his daughter a birthday gift when he saw a poor man with a beautiful white horse. He told the man that he would give him $500 for the horse. The poor man replied, “I don’t know mister, it don’t look so good,” and walked away.

The next day the rich man came back and offered the poor man $1000 for the horse. The poor man said, “I don’t know mister, it don’t look so good.”

On the third day the rich man offered the poor man $2000 for the horse, and said he wouldn’t take no for an answer. The poor man agreed, and the rich man took the horse home.

The rich man’s daughter loved her present. She climbed onto the horse, then galloped right into a tree.

The rich man rushed back over to the poor man’s house, demanding an explanation for the horse’s blindness. The poor man replied, “I told you it don’t look so good.”

Optional Application
Often times as Christians we also don’t look so Good. We have trouble seeing God in the events of our lives. We often look at things through a worldly personal perspective, through eyes of flesh rather that trying to see things as God sees them. When we fail to see things through God’s eyes the results can often be worse than running into a tree, yet we still insist.

Poor Kitty

Game Description
In this crowdbreaker/icebreaker game, youth try to get someone to smile or laugh by taking on the characteristics of a kitten.

Game Materials
Chairs arranged in a circle with one less chair than participants.

Game Play

  1. Everyone sits in a circle with one person in the center of the circle as the kitty. (You can also use another animal and the person in the center must take on the characteristic of that animal. )
  2. The goal is for the kitty to make someone smile or laugh. The leader or the group can judge whether the person does or not.
  3. The kitty slinks over to any participant in the circle and does her best loving cat imitation or some other variation. The participant the kitty crawls over to must say “Poor kitty” and pat the kitty on the head without smiling or laughing.
  4. The kitty then meows while making funny faces, trying to get the other person to smile or laugh.
  5. The kitty can try a maximum of 3 times, and each time the patricipant must say “Poor Kitty” and pat it on the head.
  6. If the participant doesn’t smile or laugh after 3 meows, the kitty moves to another participant.
  7. If the kitty succeeds, then they trade places, and there is a new kitty.

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Famous Friendships

Description
Use famous friendships to match couples in this icebreaker/crowdbreaker

Below is a list of famous / semi-famous friendships. While this certainly is not a complete list, it is a start. These can be used in several ways:

  • Who am i?: Place a tag/ sticker with each name on the back of people as they enter the meeting. Do not tell them that these are pairs of friends. Their task is to mingle around asking “yes” or “no” questions to discover the character on the tag. After a brief time of mingling have each person find his or her “friend” and share a quality they look for in a friend! (The three stooges are included in case you have an odd number of people.) If the group is small you might give out only one of each pair and then once everyone has discovered his/her identity have them name the friend associated with the person on the tag they have been given.
  • Name the Most Famous Friends: Have youth make a list of famous friends. Award the team or individual youth with the most. Award extra points if Jesus and John are mentioned. Do not count famous couples (i.e. husband and wife).
  • Double charades: Divide the group into 2 or more teams. Divide each team into pairs and have each pair attempt to get their team to guess the famous friends.

Famous Friends
Tom & Jerry
Jesus & John
Snoopy & Charlie
Abbott & Costello
Laurel & Hardy
Batman & Robin
Lone Ranger & Tonto
David & Jonathan
Fred & Barney
Snoopy & Woodstock
Bill & Ted
Thelma & Louise
Lucy & Ethyl
Chip & Dale
Pinky & Brain
Curly & Larry & Moe
Shaq & Hardoway
Betty & Veronica
Archie & Jughead
Luke Skywalker & Han Solo
Lois & Clark
Barnum & Bailey
Calvin & Hobbes
Laverne & Shirley
Beavis & Butt-head
Asterix & Obelix
Bert & Ernie
Chip & Dale
Frodo Baggins & Sam Gamgee
Gumby & Pokey
Sherlock Holmes & Dr. Watson
Kirk & Spock
Mutt & Jeff
Rocky & Bullwinkle
Tintin & Snowy
Tom Sawyer & Huckleberry Finn

Be sure to add any famous friendships from recent television shows or youth culture.

Can be used with Active Listening With a Game for after the icebreaker to continue the theme of friendship. Then do a lesson on famous friendships in the Bible.

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