Cinderella

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Like the classic Cinderella story, in this icebreaker / crowdbreaker, guys must identify the girls by a shoe and could be used as an object lesson to discuss how we often judge people by appearances.

Game Materials

  • large sheet or curtain
  • twine or rope

 

Game Preparation
Suspend the sheet or curtain across the room using the twine or rope. The bottom of the sheet should be a couple of inches above the floor so that only a person’s feet are visible.

Game Play

  • As each girl arrives, ask her to remove her right shoe.
  • Send all the girls behind the curtain and randomly distribute the shoes among the guys.
  • Line up the girls behind the sheet or curtain that has been suspended across the room. Only the girls’ feet should be visible at the bottom.
  • Bring the guys in and appoint them to the task of locating the girl which matches with the shoe they have been given. Award the guys that choose correctly.
  • The guy and his cinderella are then partners for the next activity.

 

Variations

  1. Do the same thing with all the guys, but leave them in their socks for a smelly variation. “I recognize that odor.”
  2. Mix girls and guys behind the curtain. You might call it “Cinderellas and Princes” so the guys don’t feel like they are being grouped with the girls as a “Cinderella.”

 

Optional Discussion

  • How did you feel being identified by your feet?
  • What are some ways that we typically identify others? (Job, school, hobbies, nationality or race, size, personality, clique, etc)
  • Do we treat others differently based on their characteristics?
  • Is it ok to treat different people differently?
  • Do we exclude people from our youth group by our actions or attitudes?
  • Is favoritism acceptable?

Closing Application
In Leviticus 19:15 it says “Do not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism to the great, but judge your neighbor fairly.” This doesn’t mean that we won’t have people we get along with better than others. It means that we do not judge others differently based upon certain characteristics. The New Testament makes it even clearer by saying that we should not judge or we will be judged (Matthew 7:1-5). In John 7:21-24, Jesus tells the people to “Stop judging by mere appearances, and make a right judgment.” In 1 Samuel 16:7 we are told that God does not look at appearances, but the heart. We are free to choose our friends as we see fit, yet at the same time we know that Jesus, when he was upon this earth did not exclude those from his social circle because of their social status or circumstances. He welcomed sinners and tax collectors, the great as well as the lowly and everyone in between. Yet he also had the inner circle of disciples and among those a closer bond with three of them.



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The Crayon Box that Talked

crayons.jpgWhile walking in a toy store,
The day before today……
I overheard a crayon box,
With many things to say.

“I don’t like Red!” said Yellow,
And Green said, “Nor do I!
And no one here likes Orange,
But no one knows just why.”

“We are a box of crayons
That doesn’t get along.”
Said Blue to all the others,
“Something here is wrong!”

Well, I bought that box of crayons,
And took it home with me,
And laid out all the colours
So the crayons could all see….

They watched me as I coloured,
With Red and Blue and Green,
And Black and White and Orange,
And every colour in between.

They watched as Green became the grass
And Blue became the sky.
The Yellow sun was shining bright
On White clouds drifting by.

Colours changing as they touched,
Becoming something new.
They watched me as I coloured.
They watched till I was through.

And when I’d finally finished,
I began to walk away.
And as I did, the crayon box
Had something more to say….

“I do like Red!” said Yellow.
And Green said, “So do I!”
And, Blue, you were terrific,
So high up in the sky!”

“We are a box of crayons,
Each one of us unique.
But when we get together…..
THE PICTURE IS COMPLETE.”

Author: Shane DeRolf
Source: Unknown

 


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Reflections

climber.gifA son and his father were walking in the crisp clean air of the Swiss Alps.

In rugged terrain, the son slips and falls – letting out a shout of pain:
“AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!”

To his surprise, he hears a voice repeating, somewhere in the mountain.
“AAAhhhhhhhhhhh!!!”

Curious, he yells: “Who are you?”
He receives the answer: “Who are you?”

Angered at the apparently mocking response, he screams: “Coward!”
He hears the reply: “Coward!”

In confusion, he looks to his father who says: “My son, pay attention.”

He screams to the mountain: “I admire you!”
The voice answers: “I admire you!”

“You are a champion!”
The voice comes back: “You are a champion!”

The boy is surprised, but still so does not understand. The father continues:

“People call this ECHO, but really this is LIFE.
It gives you back everything you say or do.
Our life is simply a reflection of our actions.

If you want more love in the world, find more love in your heart.
If you want to challenge others to new heights, climb the mountains God sends your way!

“Life will give you back everything you have given to it.”

Your life is not a coincidence. It is a reflection of you!

“The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.
– Matthew 12:35”

“Based upon an uncredited story circulating the internet.”


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Two Talents

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A master went on a long journey and called his servants together and gave each a certain amount of money –a talent. One got five talents, the other two, the last only one. After a long period the master returned and saw what they had done. ‘The one with five had five more, the one with two had two more, the one with one had buried that one and got a stinging rebuke from the master. (Matt. 25:14-30)

Most of us can probably identify with the guy who got two talents. He represents the ordinary guy in the world who is about average in talents, abilities, and opportunities.

What he was not:

  • He was not a complainer. It would have been an easy thing for him to look at the one with five talents and gripe and groan about his measly two. However, this guy never complained. He realized that complaining never lessens the disparities of life and only, makes them seem worse.
  • He was not a comparer. He did not look down on the one with only one talent and bolster his own self esteem through prideful comparisons. He was not like the person who feels jealous of the one who has more and superior to the one who has less.
  • He was not a controller. The sin of the one-talent-servant was the controlling, selfish attitude where he thought his talent was to be horded and not invested. The two-talent guy was not like that. He knew that you can never achieve anything really important without some element of risk.

Now, what he was:

  • He was a carer. He cared about the master and the master’s will. He knew his master’s business and worked to please him. If we know and want to do the Lord’s will we will be like him. The real motivation for service for God is simply our heart’s response to His love for us. All other motivations, such as guilt and fear, will fade before long. The one who cares about God and His will, keeps on serving.
  • He was a completer. He finished the task the master gave him to do. When the master returned he did not find him lazing about but working faithfully doing what his master had for him to do. We are like him if we take seriously the tasks God has for us to complete and set our hearts to them, keeping on for God’s glory.

What tasks and talents has God given you?
Don’t complain.’ Don’t compare. Don’t try to control it all. Place each situation each day in the hands of God and move on. Let the past be the past and trust God for a wonderful future. And God will be there with you each step of the way.


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Transformed

Bald Eagles enjoy one of the longest life-spans among birds. They can live more than 50 years. But in order to survive that long, they have to make a critical decision.

In time, their claws weaken and it is hard for them to catch prey.
Their beaks grow long and curved almost touching their chest.
Their wings become heavy due to thick and long feathers.

If they want to survive and prosper, they must undergo a painful transformation.
The alternative is death.

Change is painful.
Beaks are broken against the rocks.
Claws are pulled from their talons, one by one.
Feathers are painfully plucked until the eagle is bare.

Five months later, the eagles will fly again with
Sleak new feathers,
Razor sharp claws, and
A sharp new beak able to tear into its prey.

Sometimes we have to make difficult decisions in life in order to embark on a new journey. It may be painful to let go, but the alternative is even more painful.

Its time for you to let go of the old,
Grow into new habits,
Sharpen your skills,
And let yourself fly once again.

“You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.”
– Ephesians 4:22-24

Copyright 2006 by Ken Sapp
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Genius

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When Polish pianist Ignace Jan Paderewsky played before Queen Victoria, he won her enthusiastic approval. “Mr. Paderewsky,” she exclaimed, “you are a genius.”

Paderewsky shook his head. “Perhaps, Your Majesty, but before that I was a drudge,” he replied, alluding to the number of hours he spent practicing every day.

Crossing the Line

alamo.jpgCommitment can be costly. Yet there are times when there is no cost that is too high, there is no line we will not cross to accomplish that which we truly believe in.

On March 3, 1836 the cannons fell silent for a few moments. The Alamo, a small fort, was defended by a mere 190 men, but was surrounded by thousands of Mexican soldiers. The Mexican army, under the leadership of General Santa Anna, was determined to put down a revolt of colonists seeking freedom and independence.

As the sun began to set, Commander Travis stood before the tired group of men. Legend recounts that he took his sword from his sheath, drew a line in the sand with its tip, and asked all that were willing to die for the cause of freedom to step over it. We don’t know why each man chose to cross, but in the end, all the defenders except one crossed the line, including the ailing Jim Bowie who asked that he be carried across in his cot.

The line in the sand may have been real or it may have been metaphorical, yet each man at the Alamo had already drawn a line in his heart and each had already crossed. They had committed their lives to a cause that they believed in — freedom.

Their attitude might best be illustrated by the final letter sent by Commander Travis seeking reinforcements:

” I am besieged with a thousand or more of the Mexicans under Santa Anna. I have sustained a continual bombardment and cannonade for 24 hours and have not lost a man. The enemy has demanded surrender at discretion; otherwise, the garrison is to be put to the sword, if the fort is taken. I have answered the demand with a cannon shot, and our flag still waves proudly over the wall. I shall never surrender or retreat….”
He signed it with the following exclamation!

VICTORY OR DEATH

“Remember the Alamo” became the rallying cry of the Texas Revolution. Texas would later become a state of the USA, but people continue to remember the Alamo as a heroic struggle against overwhelming odds — a place where men made the ultimate sacrifice for something they believed in.

When faced with over-whelming odds, remember the Alamo.
Remember that freedom demands a price.
Remember that independence comes with a cost.
Remember that if you want to make a difference in the lives of others..
…its time to cross the line!

After all, Jesus crossed the line between heaven and earth and died for your freedom!

Copyright 2004 by Ken Sapp


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Etch-a-Sketch FAQ

etch-a-sketch.jpgFrequently Asked Questions for Etch-A-Sketch Technical Support:

Q: My Etch-A-Sketch has all of these funny little lines all over the screen.
A: Pick it up and shake it.

Q: How do I turn my Etch-A-Sketch off?
A: Pick it up and shake it.

Q: What’s the shortcut for Undo?
A: Pick it up and shake it.

Q: How do I create a New Document window?
A: Pick it up and shake it.

Q: How do I set the background and foreground to the same color?
A: Pick it up and shake it.

Q: What is the proper procedure for rebooting my Etch-A-Sketch?
A: Pick it up and shake it.

Q: How do I delete a document on my Etch-A-Sketch?
A: Pick it up and shake it.

Q: How do I save my Etch-A-Sketch document?
A: Don’t shake it.

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Etch-a-Sketch

etch-a-sketch_magic-slate.jpgDescription
Use an etch-a-sketch as an object lesson or children’s sermon to teach youth or children about things that are temporary or about forgiveness.

Object
Etch A Sketch (http://www.etch-a-sketch.com)
or Magic Slate (wax and plastic sheet tablet that is a low tech version of the etch-a-sketch)

The Lesson

  1. Draw a few simple pictures on an etch a sketch (or Magic Slate)
  2. Demonstrate how an etch-a-sketch works by turning the knobs.
  3. Explain the difficulty of getting the lines and drawing accurate to create a picture – its not easy!
  4. In fact, most of the time you will make mistakes.
  5. But the nice things about an etch-a-sketch is that all it takes is to turn it over and shake it a bit and you can start over with a clean slate.

 

Application

  • Life is not easy. Traveling the straight and narrow way is very difficult. Things often do not turn out as we intended. We make lots of mistakes. Sometimes we get frustrated and want to give up.
  • Fortunately, when we make such mistakes, God can erase them and give us a clean slate. All we need to do is recognize we have messed up (sinned) and confess it to God and ask for his forgiveness.
  • Sometimes God has to shake up our lives and turn them upside down a little bit before we realize we need a fresh start.
  • As we grow and mature in Christ, we make fewer mistakes and our lives begin to conform to the image of Christ.
  • Actually, the key to the successful Christian life, is not to control its direction ourselves, but to let God take control and create the life that he has planned for each us.

 

Scripture
Colossians 2:14, Colossians 3:8-10

Variation
Show some photos of what the experts can do with an etch-a-sketch. Some examples can be found at:
http://www.gvetchedintime.com/set.html

A talented artist can spend hours creating his masterpiece on an etch-a-sketch, but all it takes is a little shake-up and everything is gone. Many people spend their lives creating the image of their perfect life and then something comes along and shakes things up and everything is gone (Job 34:20) Jesus tells us the only things that will not pass away are his words. (Matthew 24:25,35)

Copyright Sept 2006 by Ken Sapp

 

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