The Smell of Durian

If you were to describe your life as a fragrance to the world, what would it be? Why?

  • Boy’s Locker room
  • A rose
  • Incense
  • Fish market
  • Fresh baked bread
  • Cinnamon and Spice
  • Sewer
  • Freshly picked peach
  • Durian
  • Socks
  • Potpourri
  • Roasted Meat
  • Cigarette Smoke
  • Other?

 

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Each of these scents probably created images in your mind associated with the smell. One item in the list, Durian might be new to you.

How is the “King of Kings” like the “King of fruits?”
Durian has been called the “King of Fruits” and is native to Indonesia, Malaysia, and Brunei, although it can grow in any similar climate. Alfred Wallace, the natural historian who co-originated the theory of Natural Selection with Charles Darwin, describes the taste of durian in his book The Malay Archipelago: “A rich butter-like custard highly flavoured with almonds gives the best general idea of it, but intermingled with it comes wafts of flavour that call to mind cream-cheese, onion-sauce, brown sherry, and other incongruities.”

Anyone who loves Durian likes the smell. Their mouth may water at merely the smell. Many others can’t get past the smell to even try to taste it, and may even describe it as smelling “like something has died.” Paul compares Christians to a fragrance much like that of Durian.

Read 2 Corinthians 2:12-16

  • How can the same gospel be either the smell of death or the fragrance of life?
  • What determines the character of the fragrance?
  • How can you spread the aroma of Christ in your home, in school, in the workplace, and in the neighborhood?
  • What images might the fragrance of your lifestyle have on others?
  • How can you become more “the fragrance of Christ” to others?

 

Notice that Paul says “through us,” meaning it is not through angels but through the church-through Christians, through those who Jesus said are the salt of the earth and the light of the world–that the knowledge of Christ comes to the world.

A Fragrance
We must remember the purpose of the fragrance. It is like your reputation in that it precedes you. You don’t need a letter of recommendation. Our lifestyles become our letter. But the letter by itself isn’t enough. The fragrance by itself is not enough. It is merely to open the door so we can share the Gospel, share the knowledge of Jesus Christ.

  • In what ways can your life be an open door to the sharing of the gospel?

 

Pray that God might make the following verse true of your life:
“But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ, and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him”
– 2 Corinthians 2:14

Copyright 1998 by Ken Sapp


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Saved By The Cross

Back before the collapse of communism the government of Poland issued an order that all crucifixes were to be removed from classroom walls, just as they had been banned in factories, hospitals, and other public institutions. Many church leaders protested stirring waves of anger and resentment all across Poland.

Ultimately the government relented, insisting that the law remain on the books, but agreeing not to press for the removal of the crucifixes, particularly in the schoolrooms.

But one zealous Communist school administrator decided that the law was the law. So one evening he had seven large crucifixes removed from lecture halls where they had hung since the school’s founding in the twenties. Days later, a group of parents entered the school and hung more crosses. The administrator promptly had these crosses taken down as well.

The next day two-thirds of the school’s six hundred students staged a sit-in. When heavily armed riot police arrived, the students were forced into the streets. Then they marched, crucifixes held high, to a nearby church where they were joined by twenty-five hundred other students from nearby schools for a morning of prayer in support of the protest.

Soldiers surrounded the church. But the pictures from inside of students holding crosses high above their heads flashed around the world. So did the words of the priest who delivered the message to the weeping congregation that morning. “There is no Poland without a cross.”

Charles Colson, “Kingdoms In Conflict”
(Zondervan, ISBN 0-310-39770-7)

 


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The Lord’s Prayer with Actions

(Introduction)
In kneeling position, fold hands in prayer and bow heads.

Our Father
Raise eyes upward.

Which art in Heaven
Raise arms straight upward, separating them on the word “heaven.”

Hallowed be Thy Name
Bring hands before face, then bend forward in a low bow with arms extended forward.

Thy Kingdom come
Rise to a straight kneeling position – arms open wide with the desire to clasp humanity close.

Thy Will be done
On the word “Will” lift left knee so that by the end of the phrase you will be standing and bring arms in to enclose humanity.

On earth
Eyes upward, arms downward

As it is in Heaven
(People in back rise) Eyes upward. Circle arms upward and down.

Give us this day our daily bread
Cup hand in raised position as if to receive, taking three steps forward.

And forgive us our debts
Cross arms on breast – look upward

As we forgive our debtors
Uncross arms to the side – look downward, taking two steps backward.

And lead us not into temptation
Take one step to the right, arms to the left as if pushing away

But deliver us from evil
Arms move from left position to a strong reaching upward to the right.

For Thine
Arms stretched wide open.

Is the Kingdom and the
Arms raised by degrees

power and the glory Forever
Arms circle down and cross in front

Amen
Arms gradually lower until four counts after the music has completely stopped. Head is bowed.
Adapted from p. 192 in “The Art of the Rhythmic Choir” by Margaret Palmer Fisk


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Draw Your Name

Game Description
This is a fun icebreaker activity for youth that do not know each other at all. Youth will try to reveal their name to a partner merely by drawing. No other communication is allowed.

Game Materials
Whiteboard, chalkboard, or simply paper

Game Preparation
None

Game Play
Youth attempt to reveal their name to someone they DO NOT KNOW by using only drawings. This can be done one at a time before the group or in pairs. For someone who’s name is sandy this might be as simple as drawing a beach with sand. For someone like Stephanie it may involve several words like step+hand+knee = Stephanie. Others may prove very difficult.

Optional Discussion

  • Whose name do you think was most difficult to communicate? Why?
  • Would you prefer to see a photograph or hear the story?
  • Do you find it easier to express yourself in words or through images?
  • Have you ever felt handicapped in trying to communicate your faith?
  • In what ways is this activity similar to sharing your faith?
  • What concepts in sharing your faith are most difficult to communicate?

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The Prayer Stool

I leave aside my shoes
– my ambitions,
undo my watch
– my timetable,
take off my glasses
– my views,
unclip my pen
– my work,
put down my keys
– my security,
to be alone with You,
the only true God.

After being with You,
I take up my shoes
to walk in Your ways,
strap on my watch
to live in Your time,
put on my glasses
to look at Your world,
clip on my pen
to write up your thoughts,
pick up my keys
to open Your doors.

-Graham Kings
Source: Unknown

 


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The King Bearing Us in His Arms

There is a vivid picture of Christ’s sacrifice for sin in Mark Twain’s novel, A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur’s Court.

The story tells the adventures of an ordinary man (the Connecticut Yankee) from the 19th century, who is transported back to the medieval world of King Arthur. At one point he convinces King Arthur to dress like a peasant and take a journey through his kingdom. The results are generally laughable as the king, completely oblivious to life in the trenches, tries to carry on with all the pomp of the court while those around him simply think he is crazy.

But there is a touching chapter titled “The Smallpox Hut” describing how the king and his companion happen upon a beggar’s hovel. The husband lies dead, and the wife tries to warn them away: “For the fear of God, who visits with misery and death such as be harmless, tarry not here, but fly! This place is under his curse….”

The woman asks the king to go into the loft and check on their child. “It was a desperate place for him to be in, and might cost him his life,” observes the Yankee, “but it was no use to argue with him.”
The king disappears up a ladder looking for the girl.

“There was a slight noise from the direction of the dim corner where the ladder was. It was the king descending. I could see that he was bearing something in one arm, and assisting himself with the other. He came forward into the light; upon his breast lay a slender girl of 15. She was but half conscious; she was dying of smallpox. Here was heroism at its last and loftiest possibility, its utmost summit; this was challenging death in the open field unarmed, with all the odds against the challenger, no reward set upon the contest, and no admiring world in silks and cloth-ofgold to gaze and applaud; and yet the king’s bearing was as serenely brave as it had always been in those cheaper contests where knight meets knight in equal fight and clothed in protecting steel. He was great now; sublimely great. The rude statues of his ancestors in his palace should have an addition-I would see to that; and it would not be a mailed king killing a giant or a dragon, like the rest. It would be a king in commoner’s garb bearing death in his arms.”

There is Jesus on the cross! A king in commoner’s garb bearing sinners in his arms.


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Are your youth addicted to gambling?

The Diagnostic Standards Manual of the American Psychiatric Association indicates that pathological gambling behavior is indicated by the presence of at least four of the following characteristics:

  • Frequent preoccupation with gambling or with obtaining money to gamble.
  • Frequent gambling of larger amounts of money or over a longer period of time than intended.
  • A need to increase the size or frequency of bets to achieve the desired excitement.
  • Restlessness or irritability if unable to gamble.
  • Repeated loss of money by gambling and returning another day to win back losses (“chasing”).
  • Repeated efforts to reduce or stop gambling.
  • Frequent gambling when expected to meet social or occupational obligations.
  • Sacrifice of some important social, occupational or recreational activity in order to gamble.
  • Continuation of gambling despite inability to pay mounting debts, or despite other significant social, occupational or legal problems that the person knows to be exacerbated by gambling.


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Don’t have the time?

There were only 24 hours in a day, then, as now.
But be­fore he died in 1826, he:

  • Finished college in less than three years.
  • Studied Law and had been admitted to the bar at age 24.
  • Introduced crop rotation and terracing to the U.S.
  • Designed and built his own home, designed one of the nation’s leading universities and the Capitol building of his own state.
  • Invented a plow, a manifold signing machine, a letter copy press, double-swinging doors, a seven-day calendar clock, and countless other gadgets.
  • Originated the decimal system for U.S. money.
  • Played a violin well.
  • Became a serious student of natural history, Indian languages, Latin, Greek, Italian, French, German, Anglo-Saxon, mathematics, history, geography, civics, economics and philosophy.
  • Served as a member of his State Legislature, Governor, Minister of France, Secretary of State, Vice President and President of the United States for two terms.
  • Created the public school system in his state.
  • Established the U.S. Military Academy and designed the uniforms the cadets still wear.
  • Wrote the rules of parliamentary procedure under which the U.S. Senate still operates.
  • Was an excellent host who enjoyed entertaining.
  • Fought for a system of government that made the U.S. a democratic Republic, not one ruled by the aristocracy
  • Wrote 16,000 letters to friends and colleagues all over the world.
  • Designed his own gravestone and created the epitaph listing the three accomplishments, of which he was proudest: “Here was buried Thomas Jefferson, author of the Declaration of Independence; of the Statute of Virginia for Religious Freedom; and father of the University of Virginia.”

What a lesson to people who say, in these days of labor-saving devices: ‘I just don’t have the time.

Author: William “Bill” Schock, publisher of the Falls City Journal, NE
Source: Unknown