What’s Wrong with Grownups

When a group of 10-year-olds in a church Sunday School class expressed their views of “What’s wrong with grownups?” they came up with these complaints:

  • Grownups make promises, then they forget all about them, or else they say it wasn’t really a promise, just a maybe.
  • Grownups don’t do the things they’re always telling the children to do–like pick up

Family vs. Church

Jesus said that we must give up our family to follow him, but scripture also tells us that unless a person can manage his house well he cannot be a spiritual leader. For many people these two opposing instructions are difficult to reconcile.

We all know the “Greatest Commandment” is to love the Lord our God with all our heart …

Creating a Strong Family

When parents around the world describe the qualities that make their family strong, these are some of the things they talk about.

APPRECIATION AND AFFECTION

  • Caring for each other
  • Friendship
  • Respect for individuality
  • Playfulness
  • Humor

ABILITY TO COPE WITH STRESS AND CRISIS

  • Adaptability
  • seeing a crisis as a challenge
  • Growing through crisis together
  • Openness to change
  • Resilience

COMMITMENT

  • Trust
  • Honesty

Strayed

Strayed
(Song and Lyrics by Church of Rhythm)

When I was young I grew up in a Christian family
I wanted to please my parents
I wanted them to be so proud of me
So I took their faith and I learned their religion
And I went to a church where everyone was a Christian

I strayed far, but I …

Chatter Bugs

Icebreaker Description
A fast-paced icebreaker game for youth where partners quickly share answers to a question from the facilitator. Partners and questions are changing all the time.

Icebreaker Materials
(Optional) “Chatter Bugs” handouts containing a list of questions for youth that are somehow connected to your session theme or topic.

Optimal Youth Group Size for this Icebreaker Game
15-30 youth …